How can I choose between my husband and my sanity?

I'll read it ALL once I'm done giving my reply !!! I just saw the question & started to reply !!! I promise I'll read all you typed once I'm done !!! ._. Uh`mm Let him know of your feelings & thoughts concerning this !!! & that you truly feel that it calls for BIG cHaNgE !!!so that order might remain in said relationship !!! oh`' yeah & mention that you are WORRIED!! & or UN`haPPy with atleast CERTAIN details `bout this situation. !?! ;-'{} ~!!! r"R"r